My boyfriend didn't see the point of toys when we got together - I think he was maybe worried that I would come to see them as a replacement for him. Jealous of a battery-powered rival! So I gave him a private show with just me and a vibrator and he soon changed his mind!!

I think it's just a case of showing them that the toy can be used to enhance the experience for both of you, so they feel included. Now he loves to use it on me during our love-making, so it's worked out well for both of us!